Is there a cure for jealousy, and can it actually bring couples closer together? Originally published on Psychology Today We are all born with basic instincts and tendencies that drive our behavior. Some of these instincts are essential to our well-being, such as the drive for love and belonging. Others are not so desirable, such as rage or addiction. However, all of our drives — the good, the bad, and the ugly — are an innate part of the human experience, and each serves a purpose. One of the most potentially destructive of instincts is jealousy. It is also one …