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Helping Your Defiant Child Succeed

The defiant child is often misunderstood. Their reactions to the world can seem harsh or rebellious, but much of this behavior stems from hidden vulnerabilities. Like a sensitive child, the defiant child feels overwhelmed by the world around them. The sights, sounds, smells, and textures that others may take for granted often feel intrusive, overstimulating, or even painful to them. This heightened sensitivity also extends to how they respond to instructions or authority.

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How Psychodynamic Therapy Can Help You Heal from Trauma

Moving from surviving to thriving with psychodynamic techniques.
Trauma refers to experiences that threaten your safety in the world. They are distinct from everyday conflict because they evoke a deep sense of terror and helplessness, fear of bodily harm, or worry for survival. This can include surviving a natural disaster, car accident, or sexual assault. Complex trauma refers not to isolated incidents, but traumatic experiences that build across the lifespan and often involve caregivers.

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Digital Dependence: Let Technology Work for You, Not Against You

Imagine this—one day, you receive an email asking a simple question: “What if, for six consecutive weeks, you spent one night each week completely unplugged from technology?” How would you respond?

This is exactly what Laura Mae Martin, Google’s executive productivity adviser, asked her colleagues in an email a few years ago. The response was overwhelming, with many expressing their desire for a break from the very tools they worked on daily.

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What to Expect in the Psychological Evaluation for Family Planning

The anticipation of becoming a parent is a spectrum of emotions including excitement, hesitation, and even vulnerability. If you’ve arrived at family planning with the plan of third-party reproduction efforts, your journey has likely meant confusion, loss, cyclical hope and disappointment, and frustration. Your path has also meant reflective honesty, complicated communication, love, determination, and resilience.

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How to Break the Cycle of Rumination

Ruminаtion is like а treаԁmill for the minԁ. For many, it feels like an enԁless loop of reрetitive thoughts аnԁ worries. Getting out of the loop can be much more difficult than pulling the red cord on the stop button. Yet, with the right strategies and support, it is рossible to unhook and detach from our thinking. Understanding Rumination…

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The Paradox of Heartbreak

Feeling the good and the bad after a wanted breakup. Originally published on Psychology Today A divorce or a breakup is seldom easy. The pain brought about by a split can be profound, even for the ones who initiated the separation. The paradox of heartbreak lies in the complexity of human emotions and the intricate nature of relationships. Some might assume that if you wanted the breakup, the pain should be minimal; however, it is not always so simple…

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Understanding Person-Centered Therapy 

Person-centered therapy, interchangeably known as client-centered or Rogerian therapy, is rooted in the fundamental belief that individuals inherently possess the capacity for self-actualization and personal growth. A SelfWorks therapist, such as Taylor Ashe, is tasked with creating a nurturing and empathetic environment

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Why People-Pleasing Isn’t Pleasing Anyone

When you hear the term people-pleaser, what comes to mind? Your friend who puts other people’s wants and needs before their own? A colleague who has trouble saying no while appearing overextended? Perhaps you thought of yourself, bending over backward.

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AI in the Mental Health Field

Benefits, concerns and future potential. Written by SelfWorks therapist, Ran Xu If you’ve seen the animated movie WALL-E, you might remember a scene from a future in which humans are floating on hoverchairs, completely reliant on robots and other machines.

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